Thursday, February 2, 2012

FALL IN LOVE WITH VALENTINE’S DAY IN WEST HOLLYWOOD


Hot hotel packages will top off an evening full of romance

WEST HOLLYWOOD, Calif. – Feb 1, 2012 – The perfect gift, a romantic dinner, delectable dessert, and private suite accommodations for you and your sweetie… what more could you ask for on Valentine’s Day? West Hollywood offers everything you need to make Valentine’s Day 2012 one to remember.


First you’ll need to buy a gift. If you’re feeling a bit naughty, stop by Hustler Hollywood, The Pleasure Chest, or Le Bra Lingerie for something to spice up your night. Or for a more traditional gift, pick up flowers from West Hollywood Florist, which is offering a local special on roses, or Empty Vase, where you can pick from a wide variety of flower arrangements. Instead of a traditional box of chocolates, do something different this year by bringing your loved one a box of special Valentine’s Day tarts from Fruute – their lychee raspberry light cheese mousse tarts are available February 1 -14. Another West Hollywood favorite for sweets is Plaisir, a modern French bakery specializing in crème puffs.


Don’t get stuck in the kitchen this year, opt for a romantic night out at one of West Hollywood’s delicious and elegant restaurants. There will be Valentine’s Day-themed menus and prix fixe multi-course meals all over town including: a three-course dinner at BLT Steak for $70 per person; dinner for two available February 11-14 at The Palm for $120 per couple; Valentine’s Day Bistronomy at Comme Ca with four courses for $65; a special menu and, as always, delicious signature martinis at Lola’s; a four-course prix fixe dinner for $110 per person at Lucques; and a special Valentine menu at Le Petit Bistro.  


Lastly, cap off your night in comfort and luxury at a West Hollywood hotel (where you don’t have to make the bed in the morning!) and take advantage of one of these incredible packages:
  • Fall in love all over again at the Chamberlain West Hollywood with the Cupid’s Sweet Dreams Special including one night stay in a luxurious Executive Suite, complimentary valet parking, a deliciously sweet Valentine’s Day basket from Cake and Art and complimentary wifi all for $285/night. Package bookable online at: chamberlainwesthollywood.com/#specials.
  • Enjoy privacy, spacious accommodations and personalized service with the Romance Package at Le Parc Suite Hotel. Package includes overnight accommodations in a spacious Studio King Suite, chocolate dipped strawberries and a bottle of champagne delivered to suite upon arrival, two plush Le Parc bathrobes—yours to keep even after your stay, and breakfast for two. Book online at www.leparcsuites.com/specials.php.
  • Let The London West Hollywood sweep you away with its Valentine’s Package. Enjoy a suite drenched in amorous ambiance, with fresh flowers, an assortment of treats, and a pink champagne toast upon arrival. Settle into the evening with a candlelit bath for two, and in the morning, enjoy a full English breakfast for two in bed. Package also includes overnight valet parking for one vehicle. Rates from $499; package bookable online at www.thelondonwesthollywood.com, available February 10-15, 2012.
  • Petit Ermitage offers three Love Packages during ‘The Month of Love,’ along with an Aphrodisiac Menu and an Evening of Happy Endings on the day of St. Valentine. Love Packages offered are: The Ménage a Trois, which includes dinner and accommodations for three (or for those who lack a third willing participant, an inflatable consort will be provided compliments of Petit Ermitage) starting at $595/night; L'Amoureux (The Lover), which includes a complimentary erotic film and an intimacy kit, plus two complimentary tickets to the Evening of Happy Endings in the Private Rooftop Club, fairytale turn down service and breakfast for two, from $495/night; and L'Epoux (The Consort) from $395/night. Each package includes chocolate covered strawberries with vanilla candied pistachios, a bottle of champagne, and 2 p.m. late checkout. To book a Love Package, call 310-967-6335 or email reservations@petitermitage.com.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Whoa man, what an act or…


Whoa man, what an act or…
An interview with Janet McTeer

By John Esther

An actor’s actor, Janet McTeer has been doing steady work on the stage and screen for the past 25 years. Beyond her award-winning stage performances as Nora in Henrik Ibsen’s A Doll’s House and Mary, Queen of Scots in Friedrich Schiller/Peter Oswald’s Mary Stuart to her award winning screen performance as Mary Jo Walker in Tumbleweeds McTeer is one of those actors people want in his or her plays or films. Even when you do not notice it -- and that may be the greatest indication – when you forget someone is acting – McTeer’s performances – from Catherine Walker in The Amazing Mrs. Pritchard Mrs. Dashwood in Sense and Sensibility (2008 miniseries) to the Narrator of Velvet Goldmine or Professor Lily Penleric, Phd in Songcatcher – is a good ingredient for any film, television show or play.

However, these days McTeer is getting noticed a lot for her endearing performance as Hubert Paige in director Rodrigo Garcia’s Albert Nobbs.

A project near and dear to the heart of Glenn Close, who plays the titular character, Albert Nobbs tells the story of a woman posing as a man in 19th century Ireland because life for Albert is better that way. Frightfully scared of being found out, Albert meticulously adheres to his duties inside a hotel, all the while saving up so Albert may one day own a tobacco shop. Albert’s desires are enhanced when he meets Hubert, a free spirit handyperson who lives and breathes by Hubert’s own rules. Not only is Hubert at ease with Hubert’s life, Hubert has someone to share it with. Albert would like that, too but Albert’s affections may be misguided in the form of Helen Dawes (Mia Wasikowska).

For her portrayal of the film’s noblest character, McTeer has received Best Supporting Actress nominations from the Golden Globes, Independent Spirit Awards, Screen Actor’s Guild, plus various critic groups. Personally, I would give her the award in that category.

Born in Newcastle upon Tyne, England, McTeer trained at the Royal Dramatic Academy of Dramatic Art. In 2008 she was appointed Officer of the Order of the British Empire in the 2008 Birthday Honours.

While many may know the actor and her great work, in this exclusive interview, LN got up with six-foot-plus McTeer to not only talk about Hubert, working with Close, gender roles and acting (pay heed, young thespians) but also what makes this very private person tick.

Lesbian News: How did you get involved with Albert Nobbs?
Janet McTeer: I was in New York doing a play at the time; I was playing Mary Stewart on Broadway. Glenn Close came to see the play with her daughter, Annie, and then she came back to say hello. And Glenn said, “I’ve had a script come up, can I ask you to read it?” and I said, “Yes, of course.” She sent it the following day and I read it and I found it lovely. So I called her back and we met up the following week and that was that.

LN: What did you find that was so lovely about it?
JT: I liked the fact that it has mixed messages: a small story with very big heart. There is a saying that it takes an ordinary person an extraordinary amount of courage to get through an ordinary day. I thought there was something of that in the story and I thought that all the characters in the play – well, originally it was a story then a play and then the film – were so beautifully wrought. I thought that was a really interesting thing and I thought it was very funny. I also enjoyed the fact that it was set in a time before labels and set in a time before categories. I really liked that.

LN: What do you think you have in common with Hubert Page?
JT: Well, I guess I brought my sense of humor to Hubert and I would love to think I’m as good a friend as Hubert.

LN: What was the greatest challenge in the role?
JT: I’d say the greatest challenge was that I was trying to play an Irish man in an Irish accent in front of a whole bunch on Irish men. I found that pretty scary – it was the scariest thing for me, I think.

LN: What did you find the easiest or most comfortable aspect of the role?
JT: Probably the sense of humor. I love the fact that I could imbue a little bit of humor in almost all of the scenes. That’s very me.

LN: What was it like working with Glenn Close?
JT: It took about a year and a half to get the film up and running -- so we worked together for a while. What I loved was that she wouldn’t have taken from the book and then reduced the script. I was really keen to make Hubert the exact opposite of Albert. So in great conversations with Glenn about Albert, I sort of formed Hubert. Glenn, who is the most wonderful collaborative person to work with, was very open to that. I wanted Hubert to be the happiest, most content, active, non-judgmental human being. I wanted Hubert’s relationship with Cathleen (Bronagh Gallagher) to be completely fulfilled and gorgeous. Glenn was really open to any infusion of all of those things that I would bring to her – in order for Albert to have something to look at and say, “Gosh that’s really who I want to be and that’s where I want to go” I loved working with Glenn. I mean she’s a perfectionist, as am I, when she works and she works incredibly hard, as do I, and she also has a phenomenal sense of humor. We laughed a huge amount. And we worked very hard. That combination pleases me.

LN: In what ways have gender roles changed in Ireland and England since the time of Albert Nobbs?
JT: Originally it was a huge class difference in those days and in many ways it was a lot easier for members of the upper class to have a nice time and keep their mouths shut, as long as no one found out about it. We all know about Oscar Wilde. There was a huge underground connection of places where people could go or find friends, partners, blah, blah, blah. But it was against the norm and that made everything much more secretive. Also, there wasn’t a law against lesbianism in those times and the reason is because Queen Victoria didn’t believe it existed. There was only a law against sodomy. If you were in working class Dublin -- and that’s one of the reasons I also liked the film -- you see a small little fluctuation of the terror that Albert has of being found out. And the fact that Jonathan Ryhs-Meyers character (Viscount Yarrell) comes swathing out with various, various lovers and no one could do a thing about it because Jonathan Rhys-Meyers’ character is an aristocrat and rich. The poverty is very much seen in the film, it’s not just a film about gender. It’s a film about women. It’s a film about poverty. It’s a film about struggling to survive. In terms of your original question of how is it different, well let’s put it this way, it’s nominally different. We’re also [in the film] in a pre-Freudian, pre-analysis, pre-union, pre-anything kind of time. Hubert ended up being Hubert. And probably if you were to ask Hubert, “Would you look back and go, ‘yeah!’” And Hubert would reply, “It makes sense that I am what I am now.” But actually, Hubert went from step to step to step, subconsciously taking the steps toward happiness without necessarily realizing how and ending up being exactly who he what, who he where, Hubert wants to be. Several times I’ve been asked if Hubert a lesbian or is Hubert a cross-dresser or is Hubert transgendered? Hubert is all of those things, but I just don’t think Hubert has a label. Hubert is just Hubert and that’s what is wonderful. You know what of it? We wouldn’t do the same thing with straight women who want to always wear suits. Do you know what I mean? Just because it’s a gay woman who wants to dress as a guy and blah, blah…you tie yourself up in knots. Hubert is just much more comfortable living as a guy for many, many reasons. And it’s clearly extremely active at what he was. I love that! What I really love about Hubert is when they go out dressed as women and Hubert makes no effort to look like a woman and that really made me laugh. I love the idea of women getting away with it as men then getting dressed like those women who actually look more like men. It just appeals to my sense of humor so hugely. The scene that leads up to that is when Hubert says to Albert, “You don’t have to be anybody but who you are. You’ve worked hard and you’ve earned your money and you’ve saved and you’ve been shrewd. And if you want to find somebody to love and share your life with, go and find that person.” It’s such a blissfully utopian, lack-of-pronoun. I love that. I really want that for Hubert – to be somebody who was way ahead of the time in terms of being totally nonjudgmental. Judge a book by what’s inside it and not by its cover.

LN: Your performance has struck a chord with audiences and critics alike? What do you think it is about you performance that is drawing so much positive attention?
JT: It’s hugely flattering. I haven’t quite gotten over it. I think what is so lovely about Hubert, honestly, is that Hubert is such a nice person. Even though Hubert is living in a world with complication and poverty and all of those things, Hubert is just somebody you would want to have on your side. I tried to make Hubert the best of both male and female – somebody who you wouldn’t have to use words with, have a drink with you, smoke a cigarette and get into a fight, if necessary. And who would flatter you, so you could feel good about yourself. Hubert is also a person who has confidence to have a job and have a career of his or her own and make good money on his or her own and be independent. He is also somebody who possesses the so called feminine qualities of kindness and nurturing. I wanted to take all of those things, and the way Hubert really kind of rescues Helen at the end I wanted it to be more maternal than anything else. The combination of all of those things is somebody who…everybody wants a Hubert in their lives. Hubert is just gorgeous.

LN: Do you see any correlations between Hubert who presents herself as someone who is in disguise (unintentionally) and actors who professionally pretend to be someone who they are not?
JT: That’s a very interesting observation but I think that Hubert is really not in disguise. As she says, she was married at a very early age and beaten up, you know, the way people were: married off at a very young age. Maybe she got dressed up as a fellow to get a job and then she became comfortable. In the end, Hubert is not in disguise; Hubert is who she is. That’s really cool. I’m a notoriously private person as an actor, not because I have anything to hide, but because I think it’s nicer if an audience can go and just see a character. You don’t necessarily know a great deal about the performer. I find that much more interesting to only know about the performance that you’re seeing. Do I love dressing up and getting into the stride? In that sense, yes I do. I get quite embarrassed and shy when I have to be myself.

LN: It may have been just the way it was filmed, but were the clothes you wore as Hubert actually comfortable? The fabric looked so course.
JT: Yes, very much. They were probably really uncomfortable but I was really padded out. I had padding on my shoulders and my arms, on my waist. When we first started we had to make sure we had ice on the set because they were concerned I was going to get really hot. I didn’t because it was minus bloody five degrees in Dublin. It was really cold, so I was one of the few people who were really warm. [Laughs] So, actually I was really comfortable but I’m sure if I had just been wearing the clothes it would have been really uncomfortable.

LN: I know you said you are a notoriously private persons but I would like to talk to you outside the Albert Nobbs box. If I may ask, what was your childhood like?
JT: It was lovely: very normal, very ordinary, very lovely in northern England.

LN: When did you decide to become an actor?
JT: I got a job selling coffee in my local theater when I was 16 or so, because the theater was where we caught our bus home from school. Whenever I went in there I just felt at home. I was just selling coffee there but they used to let me in to see all the plays. When I watched the plays, I really felt at home. I can walk into a theater anywhere in the world and just feel at home.

LN: You also do a lot of stage work? Do you have a preference for theater or film?
JT: No, I love them both equally, I really do. Theater is harder work. Actors enjoy the sense of community; that’s why we enjoy being in theater companies. Being on stage you have a very direct relationship with your audience. There is something very therapeutic and it’s very grounding. It grounds you to what you are doing and why you’re doing it. When I work on film, it is forensic in its search for spirit. And I love that, too. The relationship to the audience is at a distance and it’s later. And in certain ways it’s closer because the camera is much closer. When you’re filming you are in a little community of people for however long you’re filming, which is also lovely. I like to mix them up and so far I’ve been able to do that.

LN: What is the greatest challenge in getting a role right?
JT: Almost always I struggle to get the role right, finding the right way to approach it.

LN: Has your height ever interfered with casting?
JT: Never. When I was very young I thought it would be a problem, but it never has. Not once. I’m sure there have been parts that I haven’t even been considered for because I was too tall, certainly when I was younger, but I’ve never not worked. I’ve always worked. I’ve always had great parts. A long time ago somebody said to me that this business always likes people who are different. You know, I’m over six foot – I’m six foot and ½ inch – and it works. It’s never bothered me in the slightest.

LN: What advice would you give budding actors?
JT: I have two bits of advice. One is, tag this on your mirror and look at it in the morning: “Somebody has to succeed. There is no reason why it shouldn’t be me.” And the other thing is never, ever, ever audition for the part, always audition for the people who you are auditioning for because while you might not be right for this part, you may be right for another part. So often I’ve been in an audition where the people are rehearsing for another part and clearly there is another project that they have decided they want to do more than the one they are coming to audition for. So they haven’t really put the work in. Whereas the ones who come in who are really passionate, even if they weren’t right for the part, they may get another part. And you pass that information on to other people. So, always audition for the people, never audition for the part.

LN: How was it working with Margarethe von Trotta on your most recent film?
JT: She is a wonderful woman. I play Mary McCarthy and it’s about Hannah Arendt who was then working for the New Yorker. It’s about her coverage of the trial of (Adolf) Eichmann. In and out of that story slips Mary McCarthy, who was one of Hannah Arendt’s very best friends. Barbara Sukowa, who has worked on and off for many, many years with Margarethe plays Hannah. She is just wonderful, so I had an amazing time doing that.

LN: What differences, if any, do you think there are between male and female film directors?
JT: It’s a slightly different process but neither better nor worse.

LN: What can you tell us about the film you are now working on, Damages?
JT: Yes, you see I cannot tell you that much about that because then they’d have to kill me. [Laughs.] I play a lawyer (Kate Franklin) who has a bit of a history with Patty, Glenn’s character.

LN: What do you do when you are not acting?
JT: Mostly I stick my head in a book. I’m a bit of a parody of myself. I read anything and everything.

LN: Do you have any particular social causes you champion?
JT: Not specifically. There are lots of ones that I support in a minor way but not in a huge way. I’ve always been too busy, I know that sounds ludicrous but it’s true. In a minor way I support a lot of children’s charities and also animal charities.

LN: If you were having dinner with three people who are not living and not family members, who would they be?
JT: I would like to have dinner with, let me think, Oscar Wilde and Shakespeare.

LN: What do you think about these interviews where you discuss yourself and your work? Do you think they serve the work or do you think the work should just speak for itself?
JT: I think the work should just speak for itself.

LN: Do you read interviews of other actors to find out what she or he may have been thinking behind the performance?
JT: No. 

Femastrology - February 2012


Femastrology by Victoria Bearden
February Sun Sign Profile: Aquarius (January 20-February 18)

The first thing I’d like to say about Aquarius is this: although the symbol is the Water-Bearer, it is NOT a Water Sign! Aquarius is an Air Sign, like Gemini and Libra. You’d be surprised how many people, including Aquarians themselves, don’t know this. Air is about sociability, mental energy, communication, and connecting with people, all second nature for Aquarius. Known for open-mindedness and humanitarian views, they make good freedom fighters. These independent, “think outside the box” types lean towards that which is unusual, avant-garde, or even kinky.

Aquarians, whether they are eccentric or conservative, tend to be socially conscious and progressive by nature. It is also the sign associated with equality and human rights, which is linked to the “Aquarian Age” which we have been slowly moving towards over the last 100 years or so. These idealistic thinkers certainly have their downside, too. They can be superficial, self-serving social butterflies who use others to get what they want. A friend to all, it is sometimes hard for them to go deep in relationships. They tend to blur the lines between friendship and romance, which can drive more “black and white” types crazy!

Aquarians are good with people, which leads them to success in fields requiring public contact. Their sign has a special connection to computers, communication, and new technology. You’ll often find them in the entertainment field, or running their own, innovative businesses.

Aquarius does well with other Air signs Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius, as all these signs value communication and friendship in love relationships. Fire signs Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius are a good match energetically, but Leo and Aries may find Aquarius to detached and independent for their ego needs. Aquarians enjoy the stability of Earth Signs Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn, but may get bored with routine. They can be fascinated with Water Signs Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces, but will rebel against possessive, moody behavior.

Born on January 26, 1958, Ellen DeGeneres is truly an archetypal Aquarian. This smart, funny, and talented woman changed the face of television when she came out as openly gay on the Oprah Winfrey Show (Oprah is Aquarius) in 1997 and subsequently in an episode of her sitcom, Ellen. She is an out-spoken activist and has championed dozens of important causes. This Lesbian Icon has truly affected public consciousness. Her marriage partner, Portia de Rossi, is also an Aquarius, born January 31. 

Femastrology Horoscopes for February

For all the Sun Signs: 2012 is well underway and things are moving at a fast pace this month. Lucky Jupiter has gone direct in Taurus, helping all of us bring our dreams into reality in a practical and creative way. One cosmic hiccup involves the planet Mars, which is retrograde now. This can bring up touchy issues and aggressive, combative behavior, even among friends, so don’t be a fool and keep your cool. This influence may be noticeable on the International level, and certainly on the personal level, particularly if you have Virgo, Pisces, Sagittarius, or Gemini prominent in your birth chart. The Full Moon in Leo on February 7 will be a particularly powerful one, so use the energy right around that day to do something meaningful.

Aries (March 21-April 19) This month is all about connecting socially. Friends and colleagues can bring excitement and opportunities your way, so don’t sit around at home. Go do something sociable! Single? The Leo Full Moon on February 7th could bring romance into your life.

Taurus (April 20-May 20) Now is the time for you to strike out in the career sector. Earthy energy abounds this month, with Mars, Jupiter, and Pluto in earth signs, egging you on towards success. If you put the effort out you will make some headway. Be confident. Others will notice your enthusiasm.

Gemini (May 21-June 20)  This should be a great month for travel, studies, and connecting with like-minded people. Be creative and follow your inspiration. Mars retrograde is in your home sector, so be aware that a family feud might be brewing. See if you can be the peace-keeper, or stay out of it.

Cancer (June 21-July 21) Your deep connections with others are highlighted this month. Things may be tense at times, but important issues are becoming clear to you. You may be forced to take a stand. Be prepared and use your power wisely.

Leo (July 23-August 22) Relationships will be energized this month. You will have to make some determinations about just how much of you there is to go around. The Leo Full Moon will test you to know your own heart and do the right thing, when love is involved. Keep an eye on finances. You’ll be tempted to go overboard.

Virgo (August 23-September 22) Take care this month, Virgo. You might need a little downtime, but you will be reluctant to take a break. If you are burning the candles at both ends this month, you could crash and burn. Don’t push it. Progress slowly.

Libra (September 23-October 22) You are still a little leery of seemingly “good” things, but this month love and creativity are truly at your service! You’ve been working hard to get your life together. Now it’s play time, so let your hair down and goof off for a while.

Scorpio (October 23-Novemeber 21)  Take stock of your personal life this month. Bring balance into this area and keep it simple. There will be very little progress made if things are out of whack at the foundation. Smooth out any tension with family members.

Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) This will be an active, busy, and productive month if you can get past some of the difficulties from last year. Time for new ideas! You may feel a little tense regarding career or life direction.

Capricorn (December 22-January 19) Time to get serious about money and business. Your birthday and the holidays are over and it’s time to get this ship out of the harbor! If you are clear about your goals, you will be able to accomplish much this month.

Aquarius (January 20-February 18) This month should bring clarity and perspective about long range plans. People will notice you, so present your best face in public. The Leo Full Moon on February 7th will bring surprises regarding relationships.

Pisces (February 19-March 20) Intuition is running high now. Spend some time in quiet meditation and take note of any vivid dreams. Retrograde Mars in Virgo is opposing you, so stay away from those who would make you a target.
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NewsBytes - February 2012


NEWS BYTES
By Denise Penn
LESBIAN NATIVE AMERICAN ELECTED TO MINNESOTA STATE LEGISLATURE
Susan Allen made history on January tenth by becoming the first openly lesbian Native American to be elected to a state legislature. She won the seat in a special election in Minnesota, beating her opponent by ten points.  Minnesota lawmakers have approved a constitutional amendment in May that would define marriage as solely between one man and one woman. Minnesotans will be voting whether they reject or ratify the amendment in the 2012 elections. This will be one of Allen’s priority issues. She describes herself as “a passionate supporter of marriage equality.” She has promised her supporters that she will use her position to speak out against the marriage amendment and in favor of equality.
Allen’s parents come from the Pine Ridge and Rosebud Reservations, and there are close to 700 to 800 Native American people living in her district. In the neighboring district right next to her, there are almost 3,000 American Indians. Allen grew up in poverty with many challenges, made it through law school with the support of her family, graduating from law school in order to fight for economic and social justice for people who need an advocate.  
Allen will finish the term of Democrat Jeffrey Hayden, who was recently elected to the Minnesota Senate. She will be running again for a new term in November. She has received the endorsement of the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund.

A NEW APPROACH TO WORKING WITH FAMILIES OF LGBTQ YOUTH PRESENTED IN NYC
A forum to open dialogue about LGBTQ families was held in January at New York’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender Community Center. The forum featured Dr. Caitlin Ryan of San Francisco State University.  Dr. Ryan’s Family Acceptance Project, has conducted research linking family rejection with a variety of serious health risks including depression, suicide, illegal drug use and HIV infection.   The goal of the forum was to create a community dialogue about the shift in serving LGBTQ youth in isolation from their families and beginning to engage families as a potential resource and source of support.
Dr. Ryan’s new work shows that serving LGBTQ youth in the context of their families and reframing our approach to promote family acceptance is crucial to preventing homelessness and fostering the well-being of LGBTQ youth and to ensuring their futures.  Dr. Ryan discussed this exciting new culturally grounded approach and showed how Dr. Ryan is applying her research to help ethnically and religiously diverse families support their LGBTQ children. The community-level approach is supported by the new Green Chimneys/SCO community initiative to increase family support for LGBTQ youth in New York City.


NEW LEGAL DIRECTOR JOINS TRANSGENDER LAW CENTER
Ilona Turner, a staff attorney with the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), will join the Transgender Law Center as its new legal director, helping the San Francisco-based organization advance the rights and safety of the nation’s transgender communities through litigation, public policy, and public education initiatives.

Turner has been with NCLR since 2008. Her work at NCLR has focused on a broad range of issues from immigration to discrimination in employment and public accommodations to marriage and child custody. She earned her bachelor’s degree in women’s studies and linguistics from the University of California, Santa Cruz. In 2006, she received her law degree from the University of California, Berkeley (Boalt Hall). While in law school, she was awarded the Mary C. Dunlap Fellowship to spend a summer at NCLR working to advance transgender rights, and also worked at the public interest law firm of Bredhoff & Kaiser, P.L.L.C. She served as Managing Editor of the California Law Review, and authored the issue on Sex Stereotyping and Transgender Employees. Prior to law school, she worked as a Legislative Assistant to Assemblymember Jackie Goldberg and as a Legislative Advocate for Equality California.
OUTSPORTS HONORS HELEN CARROLL AND PAT GRIFFIN AS “PERSONS OF THE YEAR”
Outsports has honored National Center for Lesbian Rights’ (NCLR) Sports Project Director Helen Carroll and Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network’s(GLSEN’s) Changing the Game Project Director Pat Griffin by voting them as their 2011 “Persons of the Year.”


Carroll joined NCLR in August 2001 to lead the Sports Project. She is an acclaimed national championship basketball coach from the University of North Carolina-Asheville. She devotes all her efforts to fighting homophobia in sports by directing NCLR's Sports Project. Pat Griffin launched GLSEN’s sports project, “Changing the Game,” which is providing resources and training to end homophobia, biphobia and transphobia in kindergarten-12th grade school-based sports programs. Outsports praised the joint efforts of both Carroll and Griffin to advance equality and provide opportunities for LGBTQ athletes.


TENNESSEE LESBIAN NOW ABLE TO VISIT PARTNER
Val Burke, a Tennessee woman tried to visit her female partner who was a patient at Rolling Hills Psychiatric Hospital in Franklin, Tennessee. But she was repeatedly turned away and denied the right to visit her. She went to visit her at the appropriate visiting time and made every attempt to abide by the rules of the facility, but staff members excluded her from the room since she was not a legal spouse or family member.


Burke says the couple had been living together for three years, and that the rest of her partner’s family lived out of town, so there wasn’t anyone else visiting. She was then allowed visitation rights, but only with her partner’s mother in attendance.


But the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services has issued new rules for equal visitation and representation rights for LGBTQ people which require all hospitals that bill Medicaid and Medicare programs to allow patients to designate who they want as visitors. Discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in allowing visitation is prohibited.


Several organizations have become involved in assuring equal visitation right, including the Human Rights Campaign, GLAAD, and the Tennessee Equality Project. Subsequently, the mistake was corrected and Burke is now able to visit her partner during the hospital’s normal visiting hours.

HotSpots - February 2012


Hotspots
By Dian Katz, MS

So, is romance in the air or are you all saying, “Oh puleeeeeze?” Every year this February column comes up, I see happy couples just gazing into each other’s eyes. Everything they do seems so light and fluffy.. little pink clouds surround them and one can actually detect a fragrance of roses as the lovely couple pass us! On the other hand.....If you are NOT in a relationship, and feeling the heat of this lovely <said sarcastically> little holiday, you are going to be screaming in your mind, OH DEAR GAWD#$%@#!! Of course, I can’t finish typing what you might also be saying because this is a family rated column, yanno!!! HA! It’s all a matter of perspective how well one handles this holiday! You are envied by half the community if you are in a great relationship.. Because we all know in the lesbian community, the percentage of short term relationships seem to outweigh the longer ones. (I’m not sure why, but that seems to be the trend). Hopefully, marriage rights will change that, making it much more difficult to just walk out the door. But I digress.. You are either envied or if you are single, find yourself muttering under your breath during this little lovey month.. So, let’s stop the insanity, and talk about some HOTSPOTS!

Well, why not start off the month right with your Hotspots Reporter! HA! This month, the DIAN KATZ BAND will be performing with the SAL LANDERS BAND on Sunday afternoon, February 19th at THE EXECUTIVE SUITE in Long Beach, California. It’s a 3-Day weekend my friends, (President’s Day Weekend) so put that on your calendar. It will be a fun filled afternoon or beer bust, or whatever you drink, and some pretty fun entertainment, if I do say so myself <cough>.. Sal and I want to bring some fun into your lives by rockin’ your world with each of our own bands. 4pm is the time.. $10 for two bands.. just like old school Hollywood rockin’ days! Come on down and get near my mic.. I dare ya... <wink> For more information, go to my Facebook page: www.facebook.com/diankatzband.

Long Beach, California gals looking for something different than the bar scene? Check out MENAGE A TROIS - AN EVENING OF ART + MUSIC + WINE on Saturday, February 11th from 5:00pm until 10:00pm. It’s an Art Exhibition that caters to our community. I have personally attended one of these events and it rocks! For a small entry fee, you get to check out all the exhibits, enjoy the live entertainment, nibble on some appetizers and desserts and socialize with some fabulous women. Drinks - wine, beer and water are also available for purchase. There’s even a Tarot Card Reader (Stefani Medina) available to tell you a little bit more about your future. Well heck, I want to know about my future! Hmmm.. Maybe she can look into her crystal ball and see if there is a special, sexy woman in my future who is hoping to spend the rest of her life with me! Maybe Stefani can lead me to this amazing woman - tell me what’s in store for us and tell me where a future honeymoon might... oops! I am SO sorry ladies!! I had no idea I was just throwing out my thoughts on the computer page while you all were listening. My bad!!! So, ahem, ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::like I was saying, This evening of Art and Music can be wonderful and it’s right before Valentine’s Day <wink wink>.. Some of the artists slated for the evening are: Bridget McManus; Robbie Nieto; Judy Francesconi; Jeanine Hill; Laura Stegeman; Margo Burgess, Tiffany Caressi, Jaime Mulford and more. So whatcha waiting for! Address is: The Liberty Art Gallery and Performance Space, 435 Alamitos Avenue, Long Beach, Ca.

Those who LOVE winter snow type activities, will enjoy this next Hotspot. IT’S WINTER PRIDE 2012, WHISTLER GAY LESBIAN SKI WEEK, February 5-12 in gorgeous Whistler, BC. Yes, of course women will all be whistling during this little fun filled week. It will be snowtacular! HA! I just made that word up can you believe it??? Okay, don’t answer that question. Ahem... The women’s events at Whistler, seem to be increasing in size each year. They of course, have skiing and snowboarding available. However, they also have an array of parties from dancing, burlesque shows to a “Shred Betties Bash” where “performers, pounding beats, hot snow bunnies and winter debauchery” happens say Producers. Wow, this sounds like a “winner” wonderland! Hmm.. do I need to go back to the Tarot Card Reader from the other event and find out if the love of my life is on this mountain???!!!!! Cause we all know this is that damn loooooove month! Ack! I’ve about had it in this department! HA! Who am I fooling! If my future wife appeared, I’d.. oh man! I did it again! Somebody get the hook! I just can’t stop talking out loud! Look, I’m just trying to get hitched for Valentine’s Day! Help me out a little here! Quit laughing at me and find me my future wife for gawd sakes!!! Geez, I help you all out every month. The least you could do is... So, as I was saying, for more information, take the ski tram up the mountain and type: gaywhistler.com

Hey listen up! Out in NEW ORLEANS, LA this month on February 21st, is a MARDI GRAS EVENT! It is a mixed group of lesbo/gays and straight people! Everyone gets along and parties and dances and screams and.. well, beads fly at ya, and some women rip off::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::screeeeeeeeeeeeech::::::::::::: sorry, I forgot. This is a family rated column. I have got to get my mind out of the gutter... and into the streets of New Orleans.. hahah CA-CHING!!!! Nothing like a good ol’ party in N’awlin’s as the locals call it. Well would ya look at me. I fit right in now! Hmmm.. ya think my future wife is there???!!! <cough> and baaaack to the Tarot Card Reader. Where is that woman!!! I’ve got questions that need answering NOW! For more information on New Orleans, go march in the streets with other lesbos and gays and type: neworleanscvb.com.

Well, gotta run. I will march in like a lion next month or maybe just an animal <snicker>.

Dian Katz is an Author, Entertainer and College Instructor. For more information on her, go to www.DianKatz.org or www.facebook.com/diankatzband



Thursday, January 12, 2012

Rose Parade Protest and Gays Make History - Again!


Rose Parade Protest and Gays Make History - Again!
by Carl Matthes
Who will forget the January 2, 2012 presence of Occupy LA at the 113th Tournament of Roses Parade? Protesters marched against corporate person-hood and the foreclosure crisis.
However, I want to remind you of January 1, 1990, 22 years ago, when “Only 10 minutes after it started, the 101st Tournament of Roses Parade came to a momentary halt when 14 AIDS activists staged a sit-down protest on Colorado Blvd. in front of the Spirit of America’s ‘First Symbols of Freedom’ float. At 8:20am, the protesters emerged from the  crowd of spectators on the sidewalk and unfurled a banner...members of the crowd booed and jeered the protesters.” (Los Angeles Times, Hector Tobar) 
 The protest action was the work of SANOE, Stop AIDS Now Or Else.
Speaking out recently, Glassell Park, CA resident Helene Schpak, one of those arrested, said, “I'm so pleased, Carl, that you appreciate the historic importance of this action.  22 years ago there was no asking permission from the Rose Parade officials to allow us to tag along at the end of their parade to make a statement about people dying of AIDS complications. The climate at the time put a cold chill on even mentioning HIV/AIDS. With so many lives already lost and more on the line, SANOE felt compelled to place the issue where people couldn't avoid it.”
As Tobar wrote, “Pasadena police and Los Angeles County sheriff’s deputies moved quickly on the protesters, dragging them from the parade route to a nearby side street. The demonstrators had linked themselves together with a single 30-foot chain, and the nine men and five women slid and bounced heavily along the ground as the officers pulled them from the street.”
Times have changed!
In a historic decision, the 2012 Board of Directors of the Tournament of Roses invited AIDS Healthcare Foundation (AHF) to have an official float in the parade! It was the first float in the 123-year history of the parade to focus on HIV/AIDS. The float was named “Our Champion” in honor of two-time Academy Award-winning actress Elizabeth Taylor for her nearly three decades of advocacy for people with HIV/AIDS. Taylor, who died March 23, 2011, co-founded the American Foundation for AIDS Research (amFAR) in 1985 and the Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation (ETAF) in 1993.
“Our Rose Parade float is a tribute to someone who was more than a film star - Elizabeth Taylor was a real hero,” said Michael Weinstein, President of AHF, the 25-year old organization which provides medical services to more than 124,000 people in 26 countries. The float won the “Queen’s Trophy.”
(The 2012 Rose Parade was seen by approximately 50 million Americans and millions of others in more than 200 international territories and countries.) 
Grants from ETAF provided AHF’s “Ithembalabantu” Clinic (Zulu for “people’s hope”) in Durban, South Africa, free lifesaving antiretroviral treatment for AIDS at a time when treatment was not widely available in poor countries. Just as she had in the earliest days, Ms. Taylor became an international leader in the fight against AIDS.
According to a 1990 SANOE press release, “Organizers of today’s emergency action expressed renewed commitment to spur federal action that would end the AIDS Epidemic. ‘We have been fighting ignorance and denial on the AIDS front line for most of ten years now,’ said Gunther Freehill, one of those arrested this morning. Today, on the threshold of a new decade, Americans can neither ignore the terrible toll AIDS has taken, nor deny the urgency of preventing more deaths. We can make 1990 the year that ends AIDS.” 
Two years later, in 1992, the first “cocktails” (combination drug therapies) for fighting HIV were introduced. In 1995, new types of protease inhibitors became available and death rates due to AIDS plummeted in the developed world. Schpak said, “This is my personal belief, but the covert actions of SANOE supported the overt actions of ACTUP and together they helped push cocktail therapies onto an accelerated path toward clinical trails.” 
“AHF’s float served as a reminder that Ms. Taylor bravely stood up for people living with HIV/AIDS at an important moment in history. The AIDS epidemic is still not over,” warned Weinstein, “there remains much work to be done.”
Finishing, Weinstein said, “This year, the theme of the Rose Parade is ‘Just Imagine.’ In honor and remembrance of Elizabeth, let’s imagine and work toward a world without AIDS.”

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Employee’s Tragedy Reveals a Corporation’s Heart


Employee’s Tragedy Reveals a Corporation’s Heart
After a Year of Big-Business Letdowns, a Tale of Kindness
Chris Julian-Hara is a fun-loving jokester, a generous person who will go to the ends of the Earth – and did – to help others.




Born and raised in Pennsylvania, she grew up with a strong work ethic and the feisty free spirit characteristic of Steelers’ fans and American patriots.  One of five kids, she was the only one of her siblings to earn a bachelor’s degree. She followed that with two years in the Peace Corps, helping farmers in Njogone, a little village in Senegal.

By 36, she was project administrator for the Dulles Corridor Metrorail Project, working for Jacobs Engineering Group Inc., one of the world’s largest technical services providers.

“Jacobs is an enormous company,” says Chris’ partner, Jennifer Hara. “They have 60,000 employees. You wouldn’t think they’d care all that much about just one, but they did. We could never have gotten through 2011 without them after Chris’ accident.”

On Oct. 30, 2010, Chris was taking her beloved Harley-Davidson in for repairs when she crashed. Her body flew over the handlebars and she landed hard, snapping her neck, both her wrists, and her ribs. Her injuries were so profound, she was hospitalized in intensive care, then sent to a nursing home for more than two months before transferring to a rehabilitation center. More than three months after her accident, she was finally scheduled to go home on Valentine’s Day 2011.

But the hospital wouldn’t release her. She was paralyzed from the sternum down and using a wheelchair; 12 steps led to her front door, five to the back.

“The hospital wouldn’t let her go until she could get into the house,” Jennifer says.

Jacobs employees came to the rescue. John Kearney, the job site manager and a darned good carpenter, put together a crew of co-workers and on Super Bowl Sunday in February, they built a 40-foot, ADA-compliant wheelchair ramp.

But that wasn’t all they did – it wasn’t even the beginning.

“When she’d used up all her sick time and vacation time, I was afraid she was going to be laid off,” Jennifer says. “Other employees tried to donate their paid days off, and while they couldn’t change company policy on that, they did find a way to keep her working a few hours a week.”

Her boss, Bob Whedon, supplied her with a laptop and gave her jobs that could be done from the rehab center. He and Rhonda Reeves-Long, a human resources employee, worked together to keep Chris employed.

Susan Hinkle, a subcontractor responsible for quality control, organized fundraisers at the Dulles rail project site.

“They had a pancake breakfast and a chili cook-off and they advertised it all over the project,” Jennifer says. “Guys came in from pouring concrete and laying rebar to participate. They raised more than $5,000.”

The money bought a stair-lift for Chris and a Theracycle stationary bike to help her circulation and muscle tone. An additional $7,000 in donations helped pay down part of the mountain of medical bills.

Since then, Jacobs has renovated Chris’ office to accommodate her wheelchair and, despite a policy that frowns on telecommuting, she’s still able to work remotely when necessary.

Today, Chris is looking ahead with her usual cheerful optimism, bolstered by the outpouring of love and support that took her by surprise, Jennifer says.

“She is humbled by it, and so grateful.” 

Perhaps most interesting, the story of Jacobs’ big heart didn’t come from the company’s marketing department – or from the company at all. It came from Sheryn Hara, Jennifer’s mother. With all the bad news about America’s big businesses in 2011 – the sneaky fees, the layoffs, the executive parachutes – Sheryn thought it was important for people to hear about a company that cares.

So she contacted a public relations firm. They agreed with her, and decided to share the story.

Call it a belated Christmas gift.

Chris Julian-Hara and Jennifer Hara live in Washington, D.C.; Sheryn Hara lives in Seattle. Jacobs Engineering has more than 160 offices in more than 120 countries.